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Forgive yourself or others, is basically a live towards the choice now."To this, I will never forgive his mother!""I can not forgive myself!" The words sound familiar? We refuse to forgive someone, in fact, tantamount to saying: I do not want to take action to improve the situation, I would rather live in the past, but this result blaming others (or themselves) head. "I will not forgive myself, is to let yourself immersed in the guilt has been among the unwarranted psychological torture.Christmas, my friend does not please me, I would not forgive him, suffer me. He does not have ulcers, do not sleep, not angry, not bitter mouth, there will be those reflect me. No wonder ancient sages have told me: "Forgive those who offend us!" Only in this way can often Bao happy and healthy, unpopular with the main cause of the disease, because the gas can cause pain in the heart of the physical agony.In addition, as one finds wrong as long as we are people, they should be responsible to make us happy, we will not take responsibility. Blame other people will not have any results. Stop blaming other people from that moment on, we will take improvement action. Blame someone else is a pretext for escape, an excuse for inaction.Choose to forgive, the situation would follow the trajectory of a miraculous transformation. When we change, others will follow the change. We change the attitude of others. In our revised view of things at the same time, others will as we respond to new expectations.Not easy to forgive, forgive myself even harder. Many people live their shortcomings for some self-righteous in their own mental and physical punishment. Some people overeat, some people intentionally starving, some people drink drunk unconscious, some people deliberately destroyed all the relationships, some people a lifetime of poverty or disease ridden. Pain in the back of all of these may have a belief, insisting that: "I should not have done a lot of things," "I am guilty," or "I do not deserve to enjoy healthy and happy." To the sick to be a survey, you may will find them, I believe they should live a healthy and happy little surprisingly.